Post by Deleted on Mar 12, 2023 21:06:40 GMT -5
The ignoring one human being to another is a one-way block. The one doing the ignoring has chosen to put out of their mind, to ignore, to refuse, that "other" person, for reason's unknown to the "other" person. The "other" person has left the door open, any time for the human doing the ignoring. The "ignoring person" ignoring the "other person" has chosen that blocking is the "best choice" for them (the "ignoring person").
The one sided block.
One side (the "ignoring person") has chosen to take on this path, as a way to "not deal with" and "escape" or "punish" or "something else".
What can the "other person" do in this situation?
1. block them back
2. retaliate them back
3. love, accept them back
The "Other" person is wise to chose option 3 for a few reasons. I'll list them here.
1. Gives the other person a way to "deal" with the ignoring/refuse/hurt/abuse
2. Give the other person an idea of what is going on as so to wish them the best life, most blessings anyways and regardless
How is the "other" person able to "forgive" and "let go"?
Here is how
The "Other" person must realize that regardless of what was done, it's in the past. If the "other person" has done any thing to deserve this kind of treatment of the ignoring person,...then that means that the "other person" must deal with this issue honestly?
The other person may ask himself/herself...these questions.
1. was I mean?
2. was I rude?
3. did I, in any way, hurt them?
If the answers to any of these self-examing questions are a "yes" then it means that there is a fault to address now on the "other person" and the "ignoring person" is right in his/her own mind to "hold this against you".
How, the "other person" must deal with, as it were, the "log in his/her own eye" and not say anything more or do anything more of the log in the "ignoring person's eye"
Why?
Because this is honest and true. We have been at fault too. Humans, I mean.
We did something wrong
We did something even "perceived" as a wrong to someone, that cause them to become the "ignoring person"
The "other person" can now deal with his/her own issue, whatever they have found that put them at fault against this "ignoring person"
Here is how to "deal with the issue in you" first.
1. You recognize that you did (name it, "I was mean, I did this harm to that person)
2. You stop it. You stop doing it by saying it then now moving away from it on to healing
3. You seek healing for your own issues, not from the ignoring person, not from yourself but from someone else, the best is God, who loves you unconditionally
4. You take your pain, your burdens to Jesus Christ
5. Mourning over this ok, acceptable
6. You ask Jesus Christ to forgive you, making amends with God and peace with God now, not on the basis of your efforts or prayers ,but on the basis that God's heart is good, willing to save, willing to forgive, trusting in God's mercy in that Jesus Christ has already died on the cross for your sins, and also their sins, and everyone's sins.
7. You accept that payment of sins on your behalf, the Lord, paying it for you, while you were doing it, the Lord, stepped in the take care of it, because He loves you
8. You embrace God as your God, trusting in the God heard you, God's heart is to help you, heal and get well, Your real spiritual helper is God, not another human. This means, do not put a human in God's place, as to idolize anyone, but only worship, and serve the Lord Jesus. Nothing else and no one else will do.
9. Now that you have dealt with your sins, try to make amends with the offended person ("the ignoring person") as best as you can, remembering to pray for their healing, pray for God's blessing for them, because this is what God asked us to do, to feed, clothe, give water, to even all our enemies.
10. This person has been given a choice, and now has to choose to seek healing for their own way now.
11. This person should be prayed for, remembered and loved always, because that is how God loves and this is how God looks at you and this is how God looks at them.
12. God loves us all, we are all sinners. Jesus died on the cross for our sins, was risen to life, and can save you.
13. You can know God's peace and have a living, real, relationship with Your Heavenly Father.
14. You can ask for God's Holy Spirit to help, lead, and guide to you.
15. You don't have to worry, stress out, about the "ignoring person"
16. They are sick in their own mental/physical/emotional way and do not know how to heal, unless they find the same loving and kind God, the Lord Jesus Christ and will not heal until they are ready to seek God, so this is completely out of your control. No amount of gifts or anything will do. Trust in God, pray for them, as you would want them to pray for you and hope they do too, because we are just like them and they are just like us in so many ways.
The one sided block.
One side (the "ignoring person") has chosen to take on this path, as a way to "not deal with" and "escape" or "punish" or "something else".
What can the "other person" do in this situation?
1. block them back
2. retaliate them back
3. love, accept them back
The "Other" person is wise to chose option 3 for a few reasons. I'll list them here.
1. Gives the other person a way to "deal" with the ignoring/refuse/hurt/abuse
2. Give the other person an idea of what is going on as so to wish them the best life, most blessings anyways and regardless
How is the "other" person able to "forgive" and "let go"?
Here is how
The "Other" person must realize that regardless of what was done, it's in the past. If the "other person" has done any thing to deserve this kind of treatment of the ignoring person,...then that means that the "other person" must deal with this issue honestly?
The other person may ask himself/herself...these questions.
1. was I mean?
2. was I rude?
3. did I, in any way, hurt them?
If the answers to any of these self-examing questions are a "yes" then it means that there is a fault to address now on the "other person" and the "ignoring person" is right in his/her own mind to "hold this against you".
How, the "other person" must deal with, as it were, the "log in his/her own eye" and not say anything more or do anything more of the log in the "ignoring person's eye"
Why?
Because this is honest and true. We have been at fault too. Humans, I mean.
We did something wrong
We did something even "perceived" as a wrong to someone, that cause them to become the "ignoring person"
The "other person" can now deal with his/her own issue, whatever they have found that put them at fault against this "ignoring person"
Here is how to "deal with the issue in you" first.
1. You recognize that you did (name it, "I was mean, I did this harm to that person)
2. You stop it. You stop doing it by saying it then now moving away from it on to healing
3. You seek healing for your own issues, not from the ignoring person, not from yourself but from someone else, the best is God, who loves you unconditionally
4. You take your pain, your burdens to Jesus Christ
5. Mourning over this ok, acceptable
6. You ask Jesus Christ to forgive you, making amends with God and peace with God now, not on the basis of your efforts or prayers ,but on the basis that God's heart is good, willing to save, willing to forgive, trusting in God's mercy in that Jesus Christ has already died on the cross for your sins, and also their sins, and everyone's sins.
7. You accept that payment of sins on your behalf, the Lord, paying it for you, while you were doing it, the Lord, stepped in the take care of it, because He loves you
8. You embrace God as your God, trusting in the God heard you, God's heart is to help you, heal and get well, Your real spiritual helper is God, not another human. This means, do not put a human in God's place, as to idolize anyone, but only worship, and serve the Lord Jesus. Nothing else and no one else will do.
9. Now that you have dealt with your sins, try to make amends with the offended person ("the ignoring person") as best as you can, remembering to pray for their healing, pray for God's blessing for them, because this is what God asked us to do, to feed, clothe, give water, to even all our enemies.
10. This person has been given a choice, and now has to choose to seek healing for their own way now.
11. This person should be prayed for, remembered and loved always, because that is how God loves and this is how God looks at you and this is how God looks at them.
12. God loves us all, we are all sinners. Jesus died on the cross for our sins, was risen to life, and can save you.
13. You can know God's peace and have a living, real, relationship with Your Heavenly Father.
14. You can ask for God's Holy Spirit to help, lead, and guide to you.
15. You don't have to worry, stress out, about the "ignoring person"
16. They are sick in their own mental/physical/emotional way and do not know how to heal, unless they find the same loving and kind God, the Lord Jesus Christ and will not heal until they are ready to seek God, so this is completely out of your control. No amount of gifts or anything will do. Trust in God, pray for them, as you would want them to pray for you and hope they do too, because we are just like them and they are just like us in so many ways.
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